Being a sentimental or not to be?
The feelings ... I laugh wait 2 seconds. There. Violent desire, burning passion is yes agree! But loving feeling ... not last! Mind you, it seems that the average French suffer such a gloom that is perhaps the need to regularly change the ideas ...
We wake up! It's over the gems ladies! Large bouquets of flowers at every special occasion! And wait you guys obviously not a woman who appreciates this kind of present, it is no longer ... it shocked sometimes ( "but my god it's too expensive you're crazy!" followed a kind of scolding in 2 balls, and sometimes a refusal of the gift. It's stupid, that a woman we love deserves gifts and attention that is valid in the other direction too, eh). And the worst, even though we would not have the material means to make fun (I do not believe the famous quote "he There is no love, there are only proofs of love ") is that the lovers will'm the nicest in the world, we always blame something. The changing mores might make men a little more sensitive, a little more involved in the couple and the women a little harder, and at the same time a little more carefree, which ultimately make us a little more docile and they a little more cruel. Not very objective as commentary, not to be taken very seriously then.
If the perfect woman (or man perfect, let's be crazy!) does not exist simply because the other is too difficult, not only with the spouse concerned, but also downright with itself.
We work a lot, of course, much is expected of her own efforts, of course, and suddenly it defers, rather stupidly I must say, this concern for the effort in the other without trying to go further.
Example: you enter your home after a hard day's work and you see your spouse (e) as a dung slumped in a chair. Cliché, ok. But this is for demonstration purposes. It is near 19.30, the meal is ready.
Solution 1: you face by ordering the other to move the buttocks and put the table. You are the most vile of creatures will die.
Solution 2: You mouth. Then you go and prepare a meal for two in gasping. At this point you are an idiot or a bitch.
Solution 3: You're getting ready to eat, for you alone (e), the other just has to get by. There you are really a (e) large (se) con (ne).
Solution 4: preparing to eat for two without saying anything. You are pretty boring (e) but overall you extra effort. You really do not smile, you're tired too.
Solution 5: same as above except that during the preparation of meals you go your spouse (e) by saying "do not worry, I take care of everything, is you." Here, not only do you ignore your rotten day but you are more helpful, you fake a smile (yes you can pretend, because sometimes there are reasons to be upset, especially if the situation occurs frequently ) , and you have the best care possible.
Basically, just after this sentence, your spouse (e) you will pass for a god / goddess living (e).
"Yes but ..."
No. There are no buts. Just kidding, go ahead.
"But if indeed it happens again often, it's usually me who takes care of everything in the house, what do I do? "
Yoga. And after a deep breath, if you're not sure you want to deal with the maintenance of a house or a human being, electroplate said human being (and incidentally keep the house). But does not face immediately because it may happen that you have some surprises, particularly in terms depressive states or events that you might have missed.
Example: "WHAT! IT'S STILL IN THE FUCKING SHOW? You could have RANGER before I arrived! I'll have M'Y GLUE WORK UNTIL THEN IT WAS HELL WITH THEIR SITE TO OUR EYE JUST UNDER WINDOWS AND THAT I HAVE ENOUGH! "
Answer: " Hello darling (e), sorry (e) disorder, but I have not had a head like this and today I decided (e) to sue for sexual harassment and / or moral cons my boss / my boss, it's been 3 months I think but I was afraid to get in there, sorry (e) not to have spoken before thee, it was a little tricky with your schedule. "
summarize: with solutions 1, 2 and 3 you are no one (on) and more after this type of response you could convince yourself permanently.
So basically the problem is actually understanding. With the often negative influence of factors such as a character blundering, fatigue, alcohol, drugs, genetic predisposition to become a fool, stress or negative psychological state.
I had written long ago on this blog or elsewhere: you can not change people's personalities. They have to change into realizing their mistakes, the other may stress by strong signals, even very strong.
I changed. But when there were no more signal. Too late after all.
It was not everything but it was already a lot.
I am sorry. Bitterly.
The feelings ... I laugh wait 2 seconds. There. Violent desire, burning passion is yes agree! But loving feeling ... not last! Mind you, it seems that the average French suffer such a gloom that is perhaps the need to regularly change the ideas ...
We wake up! It's over the gems ladies! Large bouquets of flowers at every special occasion! And wait you guys obviously not a woman who appreciates this kind of present, it is no longer ... it shocked sometimes ( "but my god it's too expensive you're crazy!" followed a kind of scolding in 2 balls, and sometimes a refusal of the gift. It's stupid, that a woman we love deserves gifts and attention that is valid in the other direction too, eh). And the worst, even though we would not have the material means to make fun (I do not believe the famous quote "he There is no love, there are only proofs of love ") is that the lovers will'm the nicest in the world, we always blame something. The changing mores might make men a little more sensitive, a little more involved in the couple and the women a little harder, and at the same time a little more carefree, which ultimately make us a little more docile and they a little more cruel. Not very objective as commentary, not to be taken very seriously then.
If the perfect woman (or man perfect, let's be crazy!) does not exist simply because the other is too difficult, not only with the spouse concerned, but also downright with itself.
We work a lot, of course, much is expected of her own efforts, of course, and suddenly it defers, rather stupidly I must say, this concern for the effort in the other without trying to go further.
Example: you enter your home after a hard day's work and you see your spouse (e) as a dung slumped in a chair. Cliché, ok. But this is for demonstration purposes. It is near 19.30, the meal is ready.
Solution 1: you face by ordering the other to move the buttocks and put the table. You are the most vile of creatures will die.
Solution 2: You mouth. Then you go and prepare a meal for two in gasping. At this point you are an idiot or a bitch.
Solution 3: You're getting ready to eat, for you alone (e), the other just has to get by. There you are really a (e) large (se) con (ne).
Solution 4: preparing to eat for two without saying anything. You are pretty boring (e) but overall you extra effort. You really do not smile, you're tired too.
Solution 5: same as above except that during the preparation of meals you go your spouse (e) by saying "do not worry, I take care of everything, is you." Here, not only do you ignore your rotten day but you are more helpful, you fake a smile (yes you can pretend, because sometimes there are reasons to be upset, especially if the situation occurs frequently ) , and you have the best care possible.
Basically, just after this sentence, your spouse (e) you will pass for a god / goddess living (e).
"Yes but ..."
No. There are no buts. Just kidding, go ahead.
"But if indeed it happens again often, it's usually me who takes care of everything in the house, what do I do? "
Yoga. And after a deep breath, if you're not sure you want to deal with the maintenance of a house or a human being, electroplate said human being (and incidentally keep the house). But does not face immediately because it may happen that you have some surprises, particularly in terms depressive states or events that you might have missed.
Example: "WHAT! IT'S STILL IN THE FUCKING SHOW? You could have RANGER before I arrived! I'll have M'Y GLUE WORK UNTIL THEN IT WAS HELL WITH THEIR SITE TO OUR EYE JUST UNDER WINDOWS AND THAT I HAVE ENOUGH! "
Answer: " Hello darling (e), sorry (e) disorder, but I have not had a head like this and today I decided (e) to sue for sexual harassment and / or moral cons my boss / my boss, it's been 3 months I think but I was afraid to get in there, sorry (e) not to have spoken before thee, it was a little tricky with your schedule. "
summarize: with solutions 1, 2 and 3 you are no one (on) and more after this type of response you could convince yourself permanently.
So basically the problem is actually understanding. With the often negative influence of factors such as a character blundering, fatigue, alcohol, drugs, genetic predisposition to become a fool, stress or negative psychological state.
I had written long ago on this blog or elsewhere: you can not change people's personalities. They have to change into realizing their mistakes, the other may stress by strong signals, even very strong.
I changed. But when there were no more signal. Too late after all.
It was not everything but it was already a lot.
I am sorry. Bitterly.
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